Holy Crap.......

This is really weird but I just realized I'm part of a harem! I just recently figured out I had a crush on a boy from my school, so I called my best friend and it turns out that her and my two other best friends all like him a lot too..... I NEED HELP! They all deserve him WAAY more than I do so.... what should I do? Any advice would help, I've tried comparing it to harem anime but every character similar to me always loses.....javascript:emoticonp('') I'm not sure if he likes me, he asked me out in grade 6 but I was scared and refused him......

When it comes to love and stuff, (imo) there's really no one who "deserves" someone more.

I think that you shouldn't stop liking him or anything, unless you like, for real stops liking him because YOU just don't like him anymore, and if he asked you out, I mean, he might still have feelings for you, who knows, so I think you should go for it c:

Totally agree with Othello. In real life, love is rarely like in the animes. Go for it! I hope this doesn't cause troubles with friends though ):

Yeah, but if you gave up and all your friends were still in it, maybe that would still cause friend problems because they would all be trying to get a guy that you still like and it would be. Like, awkward and ... annoying? I don't know.

Everyone else just has sooooo much more in common with him though........Yeah, I really like him so I'm gonna try my best to win him through my cooking! I think his birthday is coming up on the 7th, so I'll bake him a cake! I think when he asked me out though, I'm not sure if he really meant it.... I'm just all confused! Yosshie~ I'm going to go learn a new recipe! javascript:emoticonp('')

Fngh you're sooo cute, just like an anime character, doing stuff like this and everything <3

Thanks but the only thing is I'm a bit childish, I'm always being told things like "You'll understand when you're older." by people in my grade! >.<

I'm the total opposite. I'm like,1 month older then you,and I think like a 30 year old woman... I'm a bit TOO matured for my age already. I think that is a bad thing. XD

Yeah, but I'm so confused all the time ToT

Well,if you have any questions,feel free to ask! For only 1 month older,ive been in your kind of situation a lot lol. I can try and help~ Btw,if you wanna add me,my YT is AyunaDaisuki ^^

Hai~

*goes back to playing WoW*

I was planning on telling him yesterday..... Then I found out a good friend of mine had told him that exact morning... He changed all the routes he took to his classes to avoid walking down with me, stayed up with our class representative for lunch to avoid eating the lunches I made, and finally, he ran off when Select Chorus club activities were finished... I finally caught him and apologized for falling for him then..... I told him this phrase "Because I love you...I want you to hate me..", ran off and went home and listened to sad music and got all depressed! Then I stayed home from school today so I didn't have to face him again.... WHAT DO I DO?!?!

face him. believe me, if you don't want him to see you as weak, face him. because HE wins if you don't. I know how you feel, I'm going thru sorta the same thing atm. *copies and pastes a reply from Yo!Project forum I posted*

Well, I like this guy (and I THINK he likes me back o: ), and we have been pretty close friends for a few years now, and he told me about his life, religion, basically he just opened up to me. *feels special ;D* But he told me that he can't date until he is 16 because of his religion (okay, I'ma come out and say it. I'm 13.... *young T_T*) and he is only 14 right now. I'm willing to wait, but my best friend went up to him the other day and asked him "if a girl liked you, how would you want her to confess to you?" and so he just kinda sat there for a second thinking about it (I was right there sadly... Love you too bestie. XD) and he said "I wouldn't want her too. it would make me feel awkward and I bet the girl would feel awkward too and I don't think I'd want to be friends anymore because of the awkwardness". and it CRUSHED me, because 1.) I felt RETARDED for liking him after all these years, 2.) I was going to tell him THAT day she asked that (thank GOD I didn't!!), and 3.) I'm going crazy because I HAVE to tell him and it hurts SO badly keeping it to myself, and its depressing me keeping it to myself, but If I don't tell him, we wont be friends anymore (or atleast for a while) because the awkwardness between us would just ruin it and I feel like a complete idiot for even liking him. I don't know what to do! I almost started crying when I heard it because I just felt so stupid, and now when I talk to him, he can tell I'm sad because its just eating away at me from the inside out, and I'm trying to hide it but ALL my friends can see that I REALLY like him...a LOT, and I'm pretty sure he found out already also, because he is being extra nice to me and stuff because I think he knows I'm hurting because of him, and I feel terrible for being this way towards him, and I just want to yell all my feelings at him and I just....asdkhgsioabodsgnidfhgndosjghb T_T I don't know what to do. I mean, I know hes only 14 and wouldnt be able to date for 2 more years ANYWAYS, but I wanted to atleast tell him, and I just don't know anymore. I'm trying to be a normal friend and not go all emo and depressed on him whenever hes around (we see eachother a LOT in school and he always sits by me when he gets the chance, which makes it even worse, and not to mention we are in band together in the same section as 2nd and 3rd chair so we are stuck next to eachother...), but I just can't help it! Its been going on for about 4 days now, and I want it to stop, but I don't know how to fix things. If I don't tell him, I get depressed, if I DO tell him, I loose him as a friend, so either way I loose. :'(

I'm sorry this is so long, doesn't make sense, and repeats a lot. I just needed to get this out somehow/somewhere. I've kept it to myself for days and I just couldn't take it. :/
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not to mention TWO OTHER GIRLS LIKE HIM. A LOT. AND THE WORST PART IS, THEY WERE MY "FRIENDS" AND KEPT IT FROM ME. WHEN *I* OPENED UP AND TOLD HIM THAT I LOVED HIM. ER, LIKE. IDK. BUT DAMMIT SCREW THEM.

sorry. he is a touchy subject to me. :/